You keep it a
secret, hoping nobody will ever find out.
"I can
manage this on my own."
"My
secrets aren't hurting anyone."
"It's
nobody else's business..."
But you
know if the wrong person found out, it could cause immense pain and
damage to your relationships and your reputation.
So you
start to consider having a discussion...
Revealing your true self to those you love.
At least
then you can do it on your own terms. But admitting out loud that
you're struggling with porn feels impossible.
"How do
I share this part of myself and not end up in the dog house, ruin
my relationships, or worse... lose everything?"
"Should
I downplay it? Should I tell the whole truth? When is the right
time? How do I do it in a way that is the least painful for
everyone involved?"
When it
comes to disclosing your unwanted porn use, there are lots of
questions to consider. Some people wait (or even want) to get
caught.
Others
opt to disclose on their own terms. In today's conversation, we're
going to talk about that...